Shadow Work Mentor. Pattern Breaker. Fierce Midwife of Emotional Truth.
"I don't help people perform better. I help them stop performing."
I'm not here to polish your pain.
I'm here to walk you back to your truth — the one that lived before the wounds, and the one that's survived despite them.
Because I know what it takes to live through the fire and still choose life.
– Aditi Nirvaan
My Turning Point
How everything fell apart — and came together.
It wasn't just one.
I've lived through war, violence, abuse, betrayal, and being silenced.
Survived the Gulf War and the 9/11 trauma that shook the world — and me.
Witnessed the killing of 8 people in a single moment.
Grew up in chaos — gaslighting in marriage, physical and sexual abuse as a teenager, emotional abandonment by parents who struggled with their own shadows.
Lived through financial breakdown that stripped us bare as a family.
Was told to be quiet (I was the "too much" girl). To be good (good enough). To succeed (be the best at what I do).
And I did — until I broke.
Later came a marriage that mirrored my own suppression.
When it ended in betrayal, I silently thanked the man who left me.
Because that rupture set me free.
From Ashes to Integration
I've been:
A former alcoholic and smoker, numbing what no one had language for.
A highly sensitive empath (HSP/HSE) in a world that told me I was "too much."
Autistic and undiagnosed for decades, masking just to survive.
Deep in PTSD, disassociation, freeze.
Always functional. Never fully alive.
Until I chose to stop pretending.
And instead of trying to be "better," I began to become whole.
That's what changed everything.
What I Offer Isn't Just Work — It's Reclamation
This is where your freeze is understood.
Where your grief is sacred.
Where your truth doesn't have to be tidy.
This isn't "healing lite."
This is soul excavation.
This is where your protector parts finally stop being judged.
Where your nervous system gets rewired gently, not shamed.
Where your grief is sacred, not "too heavy."
Where your freeze is understood, not pathologized.
And where your shadows are no longer signs of failure —
but invitations to power.
In my world, you'll stop asking:
"Why can't I get over it?"
And start asking:
"What part of me needed to survive it?"
What I'm Not
I'm not here to sell you glitter healing.
I'm not a "coach" in it for the funnel.
This is sacred work.
Not snake oil.
I'm not another person making promises they can't hold.
It comes from the body. The psyche. The spirit.
And I've earned every layer of it — not in a classroom,
but in the battlefield of my life.
Credentials (If You Must Know)
A grounded approach to transformation, backed by experience and results
TEDx Speaker
Featured speaker at TEDx events
Founder, Shadow Mastery School™
Leading institution for shadow work
30,000+ Lives Touched
Transformative impact on individuals
2,500+ Coaches Trained & Certified
Professional development and certification
Women's Economic Forum Award Winner
Recognition for excellence
Asia Business Outlook: Top 10 Coaches
Listed among India's top coaches
Monthly Webinars
Over 1500 participants regularly
Creator of Elevate™
Sanctuary for nervous system healing & shadow integration
Artist, Writer, Investor
Multi-faceted creative professional
Specialist in Shadow Work
Nervous System Recovery, Protector Parts & Verbal Diet
"Fiercely loyal truth-teller committed to authentic transformation"
If you've landed here, you're not looking for another fix.
You're looking to come home.
To a body that feels safe.
To emotions that don't hijack you.
To a soul that isn't afraid of its own power.
You don't need to become someone new.
You just need to remember the one who's always been here — waiting.
I'm not here to guide your performance.
I'm here to hold your unbecoming.
So you can finally become.
With you in the wild beauty of becoming
– Aditi